How does a person start over after a divorce?

What are some ways to start your life over after the divorce is final? I am stuck in a rut and having trouble letting go of my married life. Husband is having no problem at all, he has cheerfully done all that he needs to do and is anticipating his new life. I am not so lucky. I keep going backwards. Looking at everything that has happened instead of venturing out. What can I do.

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3 Responses to “How does a person start over after a divorce?”

  1. Z's Girl Says:

    Its becasue YOU are not trying to let it go and as you said are looking back at everything that happened. Why? Let it go. Leave the past in the past. Move on. Go out with friends, take vacations with family and friends. Think as if your life JUST started =] Be happy, things happen for a reason, and he was not the one fo ryou. Go out, have fun and trust me you will meet the right person the least you are expecting it. Thats what happened to me =] and i am very happy that my last relationship did nto work out with my ex and very happy he did what he did to drive me away from him and got me to a guys arms that means the world to me =]

  2. The Fat Man Says:

    Turn your head and walk forward, one step at a time.

  3. Lala Says:

    forget about the past and look into the future. just remember what ever you did wrong in that relationship was a lesson learned. think of you, its all about you now. the things you couldn’t do when you were with him are the things you should be doing now.you don’t need to think of him and what happened anymore that is the past. start making a future.